Thursday, February 17, 2011

A more in tune husband or a psychic... take your pick... cause you can't have both...

So many women just want their husband to have psychic powers that will magically tell them what you are thinking... Are we delusional much haha??? I find myself in this state of mind a lot... but I digress...
In all seriousness we have to consider the reality... if our husbands received any sex education at all (and for the most part they didn't receive ANY) it was a meager substitute for what God had planned for us.
I hear so many women say that they are too intimidated and embarrassed to talk about sex to their husbands. For many it is the fear of being laughed at, and for others it is the fear that communicating desires will make her husband feel inadequate.
So we stay silent, and over time we get frustrated, discouraged, and ultimately disconnected when our unexpressed expectations aren't fulfilled.  These fears breed resentment and rejection which seeps into every aspect of our marriage. As all of this is intensifying in our minds and ultimately solidifying in our hearts, our husbands are entirely unaware. This deficit in communication debilitates and depresses the intimacy that God has created for your marriage.
So if you want a husband that is intimately in tune with you and your body you MUST face and conquer all the fears that your mind has accepted as truths. You owe it to yourself and to your marriage to express to your husband exactly what you need and want from him. Take a step out of your comfort zone and see what God has for your marriage on the other side of it. So here is your homework... bet you never thought you would be assigned homework from a blog huh??... Over the course of the next few days, communicate just one need or desire to your husband... It doesn't have to be every single desire you've ever thought of in your whole entire life LOL!
Just ONE... and remember some of the most intimate kinds of communication can be non verbal... be creative... you can thank me later... but  please... keep the details to a minimum LOL!!

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